This year has been rough so far and it’s not even February yet. But I refuse to be quiet. I refuse to not build on the momentum I gathered learning about myself and others last year. I refuse to not be here to help myself and my friends and partners and others and joyfully keep exploring and adventuring. As such, I’ve compiled a Kink Bucket List for 2017. It goes something like this:
Scene: First flight*
Get D/s notebook and start writing in it (already started doing that!)
Scene: Being hit with a belt*
Read at least 4 books on kink this year
Scene: Artistic edgeplay
Learn/look into fire rose flogging
Dear god, moar rope pls
Explore Tantric sex
Radical personal body acceptance including:
- more photo shoots
- more acceptance of the three parts of my body I have the most trouble loving
- actively hone body self confidence and increase time spent with people who bolster that in me and themselves and others
Discover something new I want to try that’s not on my radar yet
Try out new dynamics that I’ve been curious about
Continue to adventure through anarchical poly
Explore dance kink
Scene: Whip play
If you have an interest in trying any of these things with me, private message me and let’s talk!
Points of note, though:
1. Anything with an asterisk (*) is already ear-marked for specific people, so please don’t message about that. Let me get past the first time first and see how that goes.
2. Although I no longer identify as a demisexual, I still take a while to explore sexual connections.
3. Also, I want to seek out more opportunities to play with skills I already have. So if you’re interested in rose flogging, edge play, and sensation play, message me and let’s talk!